My gf of 2 years who I love cheated on me. I need some help and advice please!?

I was with my gf for 2 years. I'm not going to say we had the best relationship,but we both loved each other. One night, we both went out to the bar. She was very intoxicated and noticed a pretty woman looking at me, so she got jealous. I walked away for a sec because my friend farted and I thought it was disgusting, and the girl who was checking me out just happened to be in my zone, so my gf pushed me and started yelling at me in front of everyone. I explained to her what happened, and told her that she was abit too drunk to be at the bar and that she needed to leave. She walked away, but she never left and I noticed another guy hitting on her and she was laughing etc. My friend told me to dump her, because it looked as if they were flirting. The next day, I called her and I told her that she was acting crazy last night, and that she made a fool out of herself and me. after that, she started ignoring me that week. She called me the week after (Saturday), and asked me why I wasn't at a local bar. ( I usually go there) I told her that I didn't feel like coming out, and she told me to come so we can work on our relationship. I drove over, and tried getting in, but I wasn't able to because it was past last call. She kept calling me and I kept telling her I couldn't get in, and that I would wait outside for her in the cold. She eventually came out, but she with the same guy I saw flirting with her the week before. I called her name, but she kept walking but figured she was just trying to make me jealous and that she wouldn't do anything with him anyways. the whole entire month after she ignored me. One night she called me crying saying she loved me and misses me and that she was sorry for ignoring me. I told her it's okay, and that she should come to my house after the bar so we can talk. She said okay, but never showed up. She called me when she came home and we were talking. I was explaining to her something that happened to me 2 weeks previous to this, and I heard her texting someone as I was telling her, so I told her that she was being rude, and asked her who she was texting, and she got mad and hung up on me. I texted her for the next two days but she never responded until the third day, late at night she responded "you can't stay with me anyways, your parents don't like me" but I told her that I loved her and that my parents decisions wouldn't effect our outcome.(not only didn't she break up with me,but no she led me on)I also told her this many times before that my parents wouldn't effect us. I asked her a few more question right after she said that but she never answered so I texted her and said I'm coming over to grab my stuff from her place. I drove over to her place(this was at roughly 3 in the morning( and noticed a cadillac escalade parked right out front her building. I have never seen this suv there before, so immediately there was suspicion. I walked to her bedroom window(she lives on the bottom floor of the 3 story walk up) and called her name. I told her I know that she's awake and that I just wanted my stuff. She was silent. She must have just passed out when I got there, but I knew she had woken up because I heard her voice go "!?!?!?!" as if she was in shock. She continued to stay silent, so I tried scaring her by saying that I was going to call the police if she wasn't going to give my stuff. I walked to my car for a min and came back to find that she had closed her window. I than felt frustrated and went home. A couple days later, we ended up talking again I came over,and we talked. I asked her who that man was, she said it was just some guy she met at the bar. I asked her if they did "anything", and she said no. I asked her what he does for a living and what kind of car her drive(interrogating) she said he owns a construction business and that he drives a cadillac escalade. This is when I caught her. I told her I saw his truck out front and she denied that it was his. I stayed over that night and when she slept, I decided to do a little snooping because I felt I had the right to. I found everything, and this is when I found out for sure that she was sleeping with him, and lying to me. He was at her house that night, and she later admitted to me that she slept with him twice (could have been more). I wanted to know details for some reason, I guess it's a guy thing, on everything that hap pend, but she said she only slept with him twice and that nothing else happened.I dumped her, but for keep on going back to her, because I still love her.I feel like the only reason she came back to me was because she finally (after a month of him always talking about sex etc.) felt that he was using her. What should i do?My gf of 2 years who I love cheated on me. I need some help and advice please!?Wow... that is a long question.

Firstly she had no right to lead you on, it's worse knowing that something may be going on behind your back, but for her to carry on saying she loves you misses you isn't right. It's so hard when problems like this arise, you love her, but we've got to look at this problem fully... does she actually love you? Or are you her safety blanket? Because she knows you'll always be there when she's been used by someone else.

I think you've really got to think to yourself whether you could be with her again. After all she's put you through, does SHE deserve to be with you? She lead you on, she ignored you for days, and expected each time she wanted you to be there, you'd come.

Truly, maybe you should let things settle for a bit, see what things are like after a couple of weeks as being friends. And if you think things ill work out, then try it again, but if she's just going to treat you like this, or sleep with other guys, then I'm sorry to say, your better of without her...

SorryMy gf of 2 years who I love cheated on me. I need some help and advice please!?
Do you really need our help with this one? She ignored you for months, didnt have the decency to tell you it was over, slept with another man and lied about all of the above. She only came back to you because she realised the other guy was a loser. If it were me I would cut her out of my life completely and move on.My gf of 2 years who I love cheated on me. I need some help and advice please!?Ugh.



She did not cheat on you, she broke up with you and she is with some one else hello?



Stop the stalking, is creepy.



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Break up with her, she obviously doesnt love you.My gf of 2 years who I love cheated on me. I need some help and advice please!?Shes a complete B**** break up with herMy gf of 2 years who I love cheated on me. I need some help and advice please!?
she cheated on you and now your stalking her. the relationship is OBVIOUSLY over.



go your separate ways, quit talking to each other, quit texting each other, leave each other alone, and move on with your lives