Is it normal to fall deeply, madly in love with a guy after only 4 hours and cry violently over him?

I met a guy and we went on a wonderful 4 hour group date with a new setting and place each hour and a romantic walk afterwards, he was everything I dreamed of and more. He pursued me and seemed so in awe of me and told me to promise to be ready for a candlelight dinner. Then he sounded cold when I called to mention the dinner and disappeared to never be heard from again. I cried like a loud, starving baby and got deeply depressed. Before you laugh, even some of my guy friends fell in love with a girl after only one night and was deeply angry when she chose someone else, and my voice teacher married her husband of 20 years after only 7 days of being together. This has happened to me three times in my life, in once case I fell in love over 3 dates that were each 5 hours long then he abandoned me and I was severly depressed for 4 whole months. It made me so depressed and hopeless in life, should I tell the guy what he did to me or what should I do?Is it normal to fall deeply, madly in love with a guy after only 4 hours and cry violently over him?If you call that normal, then that is strange.



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