Wednesday, February 15, 2012

What do you guys think about sex before marriage?

I have to submit an essay for my English class, and my topic is about sex, and not just sex, but sex before marriage. In East, it is a taboo, but in West countries, it's normal. In your opinion, is it acceptable to have sex before marriage, even if the two people really love each other. I don't care if you're from West or East, please answer it according to your moral value. I need to get all the information I can get before writing the essay.What do you guys think about sex before marriage?It does depend on the cultural background you've been brought up, but personally as a principle i decide to have sex only after marriage. Why because marriage to me is a not just a union of love but there are so many other responsibilities that comes with it . to me its worth the wait.. but im not against consensual sex before marriage.What do you guys think about sex before marriage?
Sex is the most beautiful act a man and woman can create. Their bodies unite and can create life! Definately, I think sex must wait till man and woman are united in marriage!!

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What do you guys think about sex before marriage?its wrong to have sex before marriage, at least in my religion. If you do have sex before marriage God says that person has sin a huge sin and will get punished for it.

some people ask God to forgive them then do it again, which is also wrong cause you can't ask for forgivness then repeat the sin

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I wouldn't say the west says it's normal. I think America has overly puritanical strict roots, which have led to a sex obsession because of the unhealthy repression. So it's more of two extremes, either traditional prudes, or sex obsessed.

I personally believe that as long as you both really love each other, and you are ready, than it's alright. Because then you won't regret it. Waiting until marriage is a personal choice.What do you guys think about sex before marriage?Sex is worth the wait, unlike most of these people on here that are telling you to try it before you buy it stuff. if you end up waiting until you get married and you do get to do it trust me you are going to like it no mattter what cus its your first time and it will stay that way as long as you and your man or woman stay faithfull and happy with each other. most of these people on here telling you to not wait are either sexaholics who would have sex with a dog if givin the chance or sluts and they gave it up before they should have cus they couldnt wait. trust me just wait, I am married with 3 kids and wouldnt want another woman in my life, my wife is enough. she does anything anyone else can do if not better.What do you guys think about sex before marriage?
It is absolutely necessary. Lack of sexual compatibility is the biggest cause of failure in marriages. Some will say its communication - but really, the lack of communication that causes problems is communication about sex. Some will say its money probnlems, but poor people with good sex lives make it work just fine. You need to find that out if you are compatible in bed before you make a lifetime commitment.
i think sex before marriage is ok.

there is nothing wrong with you wanting to explore your sexual desires. say a person didnt marry until they were, 40. does that mean they they should become the new 40 year old virgin? no, i didnt think so.

i understand you saving yourself for someone you love and trust. but that person doesnt need to be the one you marry.

they say that your only supposed to have sex with your spouce because sex is for makin' babies, and you dont wanna have a baby 'til your married.

there are options as to not become pregnent other than abstinance. thoes would be conraceptives.

sex isnt just for reproducing. its a form of pleasure. and you shouldnt have to only wait until you are married to experience that pleasure.What do you guys think about sex before marriage?
well my religion says im not supposed to and ive always followed it, but latly ive been rethinking it, i know i might sound gay but i wana wait till i find the right girl before i do it, not just some random hot girl but a girl that i could see spending the rest of my life with. Hope this helps, im also 16.
Personally, I believe that it is okay as long as the people are really, really in love with each other, and won't regret it later no matter what happens.



SHOULD they have sex before marriage? I think it's their choice.
Err, well seeing how this is in the lgbt section, if most of us waited for marriage, we'd never get laid.



To answer the question, I believe that people should wait until THEY feel ready for sex. No one can make that decision for them.



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why not, marriage is becoming outdated in my book

sex is natural, even gay sex

when you are married, there are still chances of getting HIV/STD's/Pregnant/Other

it all comes down to choosing the right person to be with
Well, many in the LGBT community can't as gay marriage is barely legal.



Luckily, here in South Africa it is. I have not married yet, and I believe sex before marriage is OK. Well I couldn't say the opposite now could I? LOL
I think it's necessary to be sure you are compatible in many ways before marriage. Sex is definitely one of them.
well, it's inevitable for gays %26amp; lesbians in america since marriage is not legal in most states.
I think that people should do what makes them happy. Period.
I think it should be before marriage.



Spike explained :)
would you test drive a car before you bought it? i think so. nobody wants to be all happy at the wedding and get to the honeymoon and be disappointed. you gotta know what they're working with.

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