Is it ideal to attain an erection before or after beginning sex?

I have been arguing with my wife about this one. In the past with other women I've always attained erections after we began having sex, but my wife seems to think penetration would be easier (she is very very short and small) if I had an erection beforehand.



Isn't the whole purpose of sex to get an erection which eventually culminates in ejaculation? Why bother having sex at all if you can get an erection without it?Is it ideal to attain an erection before or after beginning sex?Erm, IF you can penetrate a woman without an erection, you're cleverer than most men

A flacid penis is NOT DEIGNED to penetrate.



If you are not arroused before penetrative sex, U need to learn about foreplay . . .



Then go back to school and read your biology books, it's be the pages that are partially stuck together



Also are you confusing "sexual activities" with "sexual intercourse"

For intercourse YES you need an erection, but attaining it DURING the "foreplay" or other sexual activities beforehand (oral, manual stimulation etc) is NORMALIs it ideal to attain an erection before or after beginning sex?In normal healthy persons erection will come naturally when you are thinking of sex %26amp; foreplay, penetration is a subsequent event you may you may not...Is it ideal to attain an erection before or after beginning sex?i need it before!! defintely... do some foreplay... and viola =)Is it ideal to attain an erection before or after beginning sex?
duh!



the erection is normall achieved during the foreplay (which is essential to a truly fulfilling sexual side of a relationship) and once you are both really into the play then you can get down to business.