I Love my Best Friends Boyfriend....?

About a year ago i met the twins, I kinda liked one of them

Jack so i asked him out nd i thought he was the one, Soon after my best friend

got asked out by his brother Tom she said yes and for 2 months the four of us

were inseparable we did everything together, we called our selves a mini

family.



About a week later out of the blue Jack dumped me for another

girl, I was heart broken, our mini family was broken, about a month later Tom

and my best friend broke up because she didnt think it was working out anymore

because it wasnt the same without me and Jack there.



About 2 weeks later i had fallen in love with Tom he was caring and sweet and funny and gorgeous I

never thought id ever think of him more than a friend but i was wrong, I tried

to hold my love back but i couldnt so one night on msn i told him that i kinda

liked him, his reaction was strange he just said "thats cool" i dont think he

took it seriously a couple night later i was out with my friends and by best

friend asked him out again i had uncontrolable anger and sadness i didnt know

what to do so i just went home.



The next day Tom asked me if i was ok and

i said yes, i acted like nothing had happened but he knew from that day on i

that i really loved him and he was my best friend he didnt want me to be sad but

he couldnt do anything about it.



A few days ago i was out with my friend and Tom said if i had asked him out when he was single he would of said yes to

me but he is still with my best friend now and i cant do anything about my love

for him and since he said that my love has grown even stronger for

him.



What can i do?I Love my Best Friends Boyfriend....?No you don't. It's called infatuation. It'll pass.I Love my Best Friends Boyfriend....?
ha, i've been in a situation like this..umm i guess it would depend on do you and the boy talk or do you jhus like him because of his looks?I Love my Best Friends Boyfriend....?Dont date him yet, Friends are much more important that Partners. So wait untill they break up and ask your Friend if shes ok if you date him.
wow

You could always wait and see if they will break up..

but it would definitely ruin your friendship unless she was super forgiving.I Love my Best Friends Boyfriend....?either you can hope your feelinhgs go away or you have to wait for them to not be together anymore.I Love my Best Friends Boyfriend....?
You used the word love way too much for this situation. Just saying.
Forget it.I Love my Best Friends Boyfriend....?
Wait for him. You could sing Jessie's Girl by Rick Springfield while you are waiting!
research the word HOME WRECKER
Sounds so high school. Give it up or you will be sorry.
Girl, you iz trouble :O
Wow, dont do anything.



So glad your not friends with me...
get over it... hes not worth it. Find someone else.
You know what girl?

There are a lot of men around the world with good feelings and a brilliant future, why are you trying to take your friends man?
have a three-sum
seems like you like him because you were dating his twin, and you really liked jack.. so since things didn't work out with him it felt comfortable to lean towards someone that was like him.. so its likely to go to the twin. But even though tom seems like a good guy, doesn't mean you need to hurt your best friend. its good youre not trying to take him away but obviously they really like each other.. You might envy your best friend for what she has but there are tons of other guys out there and you will find one that matches you. make sure they are genuine, sweet, funny and will be all about you.. you don't want a best friends sloppy seconds.
If it is really "love" and you are really "in love" with him, you will wait for his relationship with your BF to run its course, and then give him time to be single. If it is really meant to be, and if you two are really meant to be together, it will happen, exactly WHEN it will happen may not be clear, but you'll just have to be patient. If and when he and your BF break up, you need to give them both time to heal before jumping into the mix. He will need time to get over the break up and be single and she will need time to heal and wrap her mind around the two of you dating. Also, its probably a good idea to let your BF know of your intentions with her ex. You don't have to ask permission, but if you're really her friend you'll at least casually mention the fact that you might have feelings for her ex.



And now another thing: Why was that boy waiting for YOU to ask HIM out? In my experience, the guys who wait around for the girls to ask them out are usually lazy, egotistical, and expect girls to constantly chase them. If he wanted to date you, HE should have been the one chasing YOU, the fact that he didn't after he knew that you liked him either says that 1) He has no balls whatsoever or 2) He's stringing you along while he's dating your best friend in order to use you as a back up if they ever break up. Really listen to your instincts and to what your gut is telling you....if he's telling you he wants to date you while he's with your best friend...who's to say he won't do the same to you if he ever ends up in a relationship with you?



Good luck with everything...and remember...being single can be fun, too!
Hmm thats a shitty situation for one thing.. Ive been is a similar one before. So if you choose to try and make things work with tom then it will mess things up between you and your friend. Ok you probably knew that one, and if you dont do anything about it, it will just haunt you as you hang out with them.. If i was you i would do what you can to get over him cuz no matter what weather you try and break up tom and your friend now or wait till they are broken up and then step in it will still mess things up with your friend and you probably. I think this boy is off limits to you.
OMG! DONT say LOVE!!! no one knows what it means anymore...sad and pathetic to think you would use that word..people please gain more respect for it. I'm POSITIVE you have never loved anyone. i'll make you a deal, go out with a guy for a year then tell me you love him and i will beleive you.but NEVER again use the word love so freely. you like him..not love..maybe once you go out for a year or so you will actually feel it.



Im no expert, beleive me. but many people have told me i dont know what love feels like. and i dont. i love my friends as i would love a family, but not as a " i wanna commit my life to you"



anyways ask him out girl(:
Alright so thats a toughie. First off you aren't "in love with him" just because hes sweet, gorgeous and funny. You haven't even kissed the kid. Second, I know its hard to like someone and not be able to have them. it just makes you want them more but whats more important to you, your best friend or him? My motto is h o e s before bros. But the choice is yours...