How do I love my girlfriend more or as much as I used to?

My girlfriend and I loved each other a lot, but one night, she started saying how she doesn't know if she could be with me, and the both of us were scared and heartbroken. However, we never stopped talking to each other. Right now, she still loves me a lot, and I still love her, but I feel like I was scared a bit out of it, or something. Any way to rekindle our relationship or my love for her? Idk if this would help, but we don't see each other that often (the last time we saw each other in person was more than a week ago, and the last time we hugged or anything was about a month ago). Please help. =/How do I love my girlfriend more or as much as I used to?Love as an emotion comes and goes, and it doesn't really matter if one day feels like more or less than another day.



Love as an action, and as a commitment is as strong or as weak as you decide it will be.



That your gf confided something to you that scared her and scared you, that she made herself that vulnerable to you, shows how much she trusts you. To share really intimate feelings like that is a little scary, so it's normal for you to both back off a little bit for a short while. That's just the fickle nature of feelings.



Since you don't spend much time together, it's more likely that you will each question your feelings more also.



Have you tried using a video chat tool such as Skype? That would allow you to see each other's facial expressions and body language when you talk, and your communication will be more meaningful than with just the spoken or written word and will allow you to feel closer to each other.How do I love my girlfriend more or as much as I used to?You better start calling and seeing her, or no, probably not for now.