I'm in love with a married man and I don't know what to do.?

This guy and I work together. Not in an office, in a restaurant. I knew he was married and I resisted all my urges to fall for him. But. He was funny and he flirted with me and I flirted back. It became a problem. Then one night, he told me he loved me. I didn't know what to do. I told him I couldn't handle this and that he was married and it wasn't right. He apologized. We continued on as friends. Mistake on my part. I fell for him. Hard. The next time he told me he loved me, I realized I loved him too. I haven't done anything with him. I refuse. I just want to be over him. And I see him all the time at work. I can't get away from him. I don't know what to do..I'm in love with a married man and I don't know what to do.?Think of it this way, do you want a man who would be willing to hurt a woman he vowed to love? Would you want to be the one responsible for constant heartache. Even if he and his wife aren't doing so good, it doesn't give him the right to use that as an excuse to have an affair. Look at how poor his character is if he is willing to bring you down and encourage you to feel guilt, hurt and possibly even anger. You are single, so you are allowed to have a relationship with a single man, not him. He's not worth the heartache, let him know you would not stand for it and if he did love you as much as he says, he would want your happiness, he wouldn't want you miserable.



What would you want your husband to do if you were in the same situation as his wife. Just think about it and don't do anything that would add weight on your conscience, follow your heart, you know what the right thing to do would be. Let him know where you stand as a woman who deserves a good man, one that she could trust if she ever ended up in a relationship.I'm in love with a married man and I don't know what to do.?Remind him that he is married once again %26amp; ask him to PICK who he wants. If he isn't happy with his wife he should get a divorce. DON'T let yourself be the other woman to him. It isn't right or fair that he'd put you or his wife though this drama. If he loves you then he needs to pick. Tell him that.



GOOD LUCK