How long does the average guy waits for sex?

I've been dating this guy for a couple of months and we've just made it official. We've gotten close to having sex a few times and we've tried once. I have this major problem, he is a little to big and I a little to small. I've had sex with one other guy but that was way before I met this one. How long will the average guy hold out for? It would be best if anyone who had experience with this situation left an answer. Also what could help me reduce the pain?How long does the average guy waits for sex?Depends on the guy. A good guy will wait a while, until you're comfortable. A jerk won't wait longer than 5 months.



Use a lot of lube. Just go slowly. Let him finger you to stretch you out (sounds gross, but it works).How long does the average guy waits for sex?If your boyfriend is intact, then you need to teach him how to use his foreskin during sex. It should be pushed forward when entering the vagina, so that it unrolls when it's inside. Many intact men, brought up in a world which has a very puritanical and anti-intellectual view of sex, have no idea that the foreskin plays this essential role in sex, and they unwittingly roll it back before entering the woman's vagina.



If he's circumcised, you'd just have to lube him up and try to relax. You might also mention foreskin restoration. A foreskin works better than any lube, and it protects your vagina, whereas a circumcised penis abrades it, which can cause health problems.How long does the average guy waits for sex?You need to make sure he spends extra time doing foreplay on you so that you can relax and lubricate properly. As the other poster recommended, he needs to use his fingers to stretch you a bit. Also because he should finger you first if for no other reason than to give you pleasure first. He also needs to be gentle and go slowly. Also doing oral sex on you first might help make sure you feel pleasure and to be sure you're adequately ready.



If you still have pain then see a gynecologist, you may need to have something done so you stop hurting. Vaginas are supposed to stretch enough to expel a baby, if you have trouble admitting a penis either he's too rough or you're too tight.How long does the average guy waits for sex?
i don't know. I'm gay. most gay guys i've dated think we should have sex after about two hours. two months is about right i'd say though ideally. sex isn't really that painful. take some ibuprofen if you need to.