What can I do to forget about the fact that I cannot find romance?

All my friends have romantic and lovely relationships while I'm always single and alone. Well not really, I still have relationships but they're either one night stands or lustful relationships that last two weeks after a lot of sex. Even though my friends are still virgins, I still envy the happiness they have. Plus, loveless sex isn't even that great. I know I'm probably too young to be thinking about love (I'm 17) but it's just depressing!What can I do to forget about the fact that I cannot find romance?You got to get in the right mind, get your self out of your funk, you need to find someone who is nice and sweet not some slut.



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One door always open when another closes. Sometimes it's right under your nose.



In your case, try furthering your studies. You're still young and of course, you are having a lot of things to think about. But when a mind is lacking focus, the body fails. Get a diploma, a degree and so on. Study. Believe it or not, studying is one way to meet new people, and a great one, too.



I'm not going to comment about loveless sex but if you do that, do it safely.



That aside, I really implore you to go study. It will do you a lot of good.What can I do to forget about the fact that I cannot find romance?I'm guessing you probably have some girls floating around you that you just talk with, or hang with, and haven't had sex with yet. Why don't you find somebody that stimulates you intellectually, that is funny, and you are comfortable being around, and ask them out? Even if you have had sex before. Maybe set yourself a limit, of not going past first base for the first two dates, pace yourself. A decent woman will respect your boundaries (assuming in turn you respect hers). If you were 18+, i'd suggest craigslist, because it's a good way of saying "This is what I want, this is what I don't want", but as a minor, it's a bit harder.
Perfectly normal,I go through the same things a lot of times we go for what we think is perfect but there is no such thing.See your Friends know this and they have settled they looked for different things in people,you on the other hand obviously have vanity on the brain.Try just hanging out with a cool girl; no I didn't say pick up the nearest dog, lol. Just check out someone in your classes or at work or even in the neighborhood and go to a movie or a cheap place that if you want to pay for you wont feel gypped if you two don't mesh.You will have to chill with the sex thing though for a little bit and analyze your situation. Good luck playboy. ;)What can I do to forget about the fact that I cannot find romance?Look KzN, its very simple; you can't find happiness by going after things you THINK will make you happy like - friends, money, material stuff etc.



Love is precisely like that - girls, sex, superficial relationships WON'T ever land you in a loving relationship. Try to understand that.



It doesn't matter whether you are 17 or 70; everyone deserves love but you need to give it to get it. I mean, LOVE not sex.



Please concentrate on building good bonds and loving friendships right now. Love will come :)



P.S. I know people who fell in love when they were 16 and are still so much in love :) Don't be disheartened. Learn from your mistakes.What can I do to forget about the fact that I cannot find romance?
Oh my gosh ahha,

I'm a 17 year old girl and I have the same problems as you! haha.

I cant find a relationship either.

And I've never been in love either, while all of my friends have been.

Expect I dont have sex....ever. haha. I dont believe in sex before your 18, i think we should all wait till we are 18 or more.



But its okay I'm in the same boat as you.



"/ hha



Just bound to never have a relationship.
You are right, you are too young. And I only hope these one night stands and sexual relationships involve protection. But you have plenty of time to find love, so just enjoy being a teenager. And most likely, your friends relationships are not all that great as you are thinking they are. Just enjoy life, don't sit around wishing you could find it!What can I do to forget about the fact that I cannot find romance?
dude try to remember someone you see often and you think is atractive. and dont be afraid to talk to her. just remember that it takes time to build strong relationships so hang out with this girl often and get to know each other but refrain from making alot of sexual move towards her so that it does not become just some booty-call. soon enough you should start talking about your personal feelings and other such stuff to each other and it will become like a mutual agreement kind of thing and it will feel special.
change your self dont care for it will come get some excersis running and try to see always happiness of others and try to say positive about everyone and care for their happiness like praise them for their good work the will run after you and you will have everything the more you thing the more you notice just do it
Be a friend to someone first Don't use sex to "draw him in" Every gut will go for the sex thing Find someone you have something in common with Find a friend first and at 17 with all that is out there, you might might want to be a little more careful
i rly think u should stop having sex maybe girls just see that in you and they are not interested u no i would rly lay off it for a while and dnt worry ull get that right girl but just learn to respect girls u no u will b happy but only if u do things right
yea man your in the same boat im in, except the one nights stands and stuff and im 20 going on 21



All of my friends have a girlfriend with an endless relationship and im here single and lonely. :(



i really hate being single
STOP WORRING ABOUT IT THERE IS ALOT OF TIME TO FIND LOVE, ALSO LOVE IS SO OVER RATED! FOCUS ON YOUR EDUCATION CAUSE GIRLS LIKE GUYS THAT ARE ESTABLISHED (WHEN YOU GET OLDER AND LOOK BACK YOU WILL LAUGH ABOUT THE SITUATION).
You got to get in the right mind, get your self out of your funk, you need to find someone who is nice and sweet not some slut.
If you stopped pursuing loveless relationships, they won't happen
You could start by dropping the emo drama crap. "Oh woe is me, my life sucks so bad!" Seriously, get over yourself.
you cant do anything you just have to wait til the perfect partner comes along
keep on trying u ll find the right girl
you almost can'