My bf's crazy, he won't have a sex life (no babies)! But I love him what should i do?

Ok we plan on getting married, we dated for a year and yes I didn't really mind not having sex for that long. He had never gone far with me towards sex and whenever I try to push farther after getting ourselves undressed, he would just go on with the foreplay and settle with that.



One month after our first date I directly mentioned how I wanted more but he gets selfish saying that this was enough. I was ok with it (it was hot and it's good enough for me since he had the body of a Greek God) but half our year thoughts crossed my mind like if he's gay, or he's disfunctional (in plain sight he looks perfectly normal if not better).



But at the same time when I came with him in the doctor, he was completely fertile and his "plumbings" completely clean and functioning. So now I know the problem's all up in his noggin. I didn't pay much attention to it but now the thought of having kids came up in my mind (I'm 20 and he's 19, great age for children). So now since summer I tried pushing him more than foreplay (lingerie, seduction, roleplaying, the works) and he just says that he definitely is satisfied enough with the foreplay and seduction and isn't interested in "shoving his penis."



Ok now last weekend, I got tired one night and told him that I love him but I want to live the rest of my life as a mother and that to me is much more important. I mentioned that and that from now on, I need to hear if I will ever have his children and if he ever wanted to.



What shocked me is that he stopped playing a game (he was on his xcube) and just stood up and blurted how he'll never want to have kids no matter how everyone pressures him. And he sorta drifted on a tangent and mentioned how he hated how everyone expects him to have sex and impregnate like his friends, every member of his family, and that he now doesn't want to hear his own girl. He just went ape$sht and declared that if I don't like it, I could get out of this house.



Now I blasted out the door, slammed it shut, and headed for my mother's. What angered me the most is the fact that he didn't run after me and now ( a week later) he didn't ever call me. What should I do, I miss the fake sex and all the comfort and appreciation he gave me that my rebound guy (I'm dating now) isn't really doing. He wants sex but I don't know if I should someone help?My bf's crazy, he won't have a sex life (no babies)! But I love him what should i do?Dude, he just doesn't want to have kids because he enjoys his life and doesn't want it to change. I mean everyone at the age of 19, who would want their fun college life to change, especially since that's the age when it's just in its beginning.



As for sex, he's smart and realizes there's so little to gain but so much to lose. Think of it that way. And I don't mean virginity when I mean the things you lose in sex?
A nineteen year old guy not interested in sex with you? If he's a virgin maybe he's really shy and you can help him. If he's not a virgin then he's not into you.My bf's crazy, he won't have a sex life (no babies)! But I love him what should i do?he probably isnt ready. he is only nineteen and you only want to ahve sex to get pregnant. hes young as **** and well its to early for him.
Serves u right! I would've done the exact same thing, i hate b1tches who always try to rush things. For Gods sake ur barely an adult, u have ur whole life ahead of u, u don't need to bring a human

being into this world if one of you aren't ready



btw, its XBOX not xcubeMy bf's crazy, he won't have a sex life (no babies)! But I love him what should i do?you wrote too much so i might be the only one to answer. But I can tell you this your the girlfriend and girlfriends no matter what you may think are always in control its the way of life.
Don't forget kids are permanent and he doesn't wanna do something where there's no turning back from. He just doesn't wanna have kids. That's all there is to it.
Xbox,xcube, who really cares?



It sounds like this guy doesn't want to take on a responsibility that will last for 18 years. Can you really blame him? And for that matter, would you really want to rely on this person to support you and your child for the next 18 years?



This is a fine time for you to have sex, but you might want to put off on having babies for a few more years.
He's 19. That's still way too early for kids in most people's minds.



Edit: And yeah.. I'd yell at you too if you called it an "xcube" in front of me.