I am a muslim boy and i am in love whith a christian girl?

First of all my englisht is bad :)

I am a muslim boy 19 years old and before i started going in mosque and praying i was in depression

i was praying God to find i girl that loves me and me her .

So one night i was in a disko and saw her and we look each other in the eyes and we fel in love and we started dating after 2 month i had sex whith her ( her firts time having sex and my first time to ), we love each othe so much, we see each other every day and tolked all day in the phone and i byed her gifts and we spendet all the time together smiling loving each other

in that moment we dont have any problem in our lifes (bthw she was 15 now she is 16 ) and every day i explain to her thing for islam and she like it

but some day her best friend tell her sister and family that she is dating a muslim albanian and they don alowed her to be whith me

but we find way to see each other but not like before now we started going on her grand mother house and when she sleeped i came in and stay till morning than go home whithaot no one knowing that .

but now i cant do that becous in that time wase summer now the school started ,now she is in school and i have a workplace near her shchool were i work and i have the keys and when we have time she leave shchool in the 30 minutes free time she leave the shchool and come whith me there but in her shchool they now know that i am Albanian and a muslim ( she is Macedonian and christian orthodoks) and now she cant leave school

now i cant wait in the bus stattion whith her like before now i cant be near her anymore but we made a deal she calls me when she can and she comes to my place ner her shchool when she have a chance but is very rare one in a week ore month but is ok for me i love her she love me. but i dont have time like before to explane thing about islam and she is only 16 im 19 and we canot mary ( BTHW we are together for 1 year now )each other , now i am going in mosque and praying , but i cant leave her i have hope that someday i will have time to explain to her about islam and we will bi together becouse she love me and i love her but till than what should i do if i procede seen whith her is that a sin :S i cant leave her i pray make dua to Allah to healp me and to lead my girl friend to islam so i can marry her when time comes . pls tell me somebody what i should do ? and sory for my bad english i hope you understand what i wantet do ask :) may Allah find us all the right wayI am a muslim boy and i am in love whith a christian girl?Isn't having premarital sex absolutely forbidden by Islam?



You're going against your religion to begin with. You want to teach her about Islam (yet you're failing in some areas there). Are your plans to attempt to convert her? If so, that isn't your right to do. She has her own faith. Respect it (and her beliefs)



If not, expect trouble ahead (from both sides).



I would consider looking for another girlI am a muslim boy and i am in love whith a christian girl?
God wants you to convert to Christianity that's why he found you a christian girl.I am a muslim boy and i am in love whith a christian girl?@Aliah; Good advice. I would have said the same thing. Good luck and may Allah make thing easy for you.
You and that girl need to forget about your religions and just go out. Don't let your religion keep love apart.I am a muslim boy and i am in love whith a christian girl?Wait- you wonder if being seen with her is a sin, yet you had premarital sex (with a minor) and had no second thoughts?



lolI am a muslim boy and i am in love whith a christian girl?
It is time to get another girlfriend, sex with her might be even better.
Great story wonder who will play you in the movie.I am a muslim boy and i am in love whith a christian girl?
Allah will tear you for dating with a kafir. You are foolish.
You forgot to mention that you are a troll
I'd suggest you pray to The real God, Jehovah. Allah can't help you. Clever name you have there for such a young man...
My friend, Allah is the most merciful, the most generous, the most wise and he has warned us that if we commit 'Zena' (Which is sex outside marriage) there will be punishment waiting for us in the day of Judgement. Therefore i urge you to repent to allah and start over.

Secondly, a christian woman does not have to convert to islam if she wants to marry a muslim man. I suggest you should get your education before you even think about marraige.

Good Luck, May Allah accept your repention
Correct - underage sex is a sin and a crime; however, you do seem to love her.



The God we worship is not a spiteful God; He has many names!



You must pray sincerely about your situation, please!
Naqeta, edhe un jam Shqiptare. E kuptuj se cfar problemi ke dhe me vjen shum gjina per ty. Nese e don ty at vajzen, pse nuk e marish per nuse? Ne ta ndron fejen dhe te behet Musliman. Nese nuk dije shqip, le te mesoet tu e degju familjen tende kor flasin. Un njoh shum djem si jan martu per Maqedonska dhe ic mos ki gajle nese flasen dekush kec. Atje ka shum xhamija, pse nuk shkon te bisedesh me denji oxhe dhe aj tet drejton ma mir si ta ndron fejen dashnorja tende dhe si ta pranon familje tende nusen e re ne shpi. Shpresoj se gjithcka do behet mir me ty dhe me dashnoren. Allahi do te ndihmon ty.





And to everyone that is telling him to find Jesus, he doesn't need Christianity in his life. If you can't respect that he is a Muslim than please don't post an answer. Go find somewhere else to preach.
My sister is married to a muslim and she didn't;t convert. He said that was ok nowadays it is no longer a rule that a Muslim man cannot marry a non Muslim without converting her. He did ask her to convert but she's refused. I realise now that their are different forms of Muslim belief ask your Iman if you worried about this
My dear young man



there is only big problem here and that is religion



as you will not give up your religion, and it is very unlikely that she will convert to yours, thee is little chance of a happy outcome



you have to realise that to all other religions theirs is the only true god, and once yuo actually see that you will realise that it cannot be true that your god is the only right one.



wht don't you convert to christianity? It is a lovely religion of peace and happiness and none of this haram nonsense?
Hello,



1) Here is the bottom line. Just as you were taught and indoctrinated to believe there is but one God Allah and Mohamed is His prophet, she has been taught and indoctrinated from day one there is God who sent Jesus to earth as a redeemer and you only get to the Father by Him. She would be just as scared and unhappy to leave her religion fearing damnation as you would be to leave yours for her.



2) Fortunately for you, marrying a person in Islam is is a one way ticket in your favour since you can marry a Christian or Jew but a Muslim woman cannot marry a Christian or Jew unless he converts. She does not have to convert.



3) For the longer term you have to consider what faith your children will be brought up in. Islam insists they are Muslim but the Catholic church will insist they be Catholic. What will your families have to say. In such situations that I have seen in my lifetime, the two partners do not want to offend or force the other to make such decisions so the kids grow up with no religion.



Ultimately you will need to think with your head here as well as your heart. Personally I have no problem with different races or cultures marrying but I do have strong reservations about people of very different faiths marrying for the reasons I indicated above.



Cheers,



Michael Kelly
Don't listen to all these Christians over her telling you Islam is not the way, you are by all means in the correct religion Alhumdulila, first of all you should know better that to have had sex with her in Islam it is haram, the first thing you need to do is ask Allah for forgiveness and never do it again unless you marry her or anyone else, also it's ok if u talk to her just try to keep things halal, Allah is the most merciful the most gracious surely he will forgive you if you are truly sorry...you need to go to her parents and take the risk to ask her in marriage explain to them that islam does not force any one into becoming a Muslim it's her decision explain that you love eachother very much and want to be with each other...if that doesn't work then I'm sorry to say you will have to wait until she turns 18, my advice to you is to go to her parents house and win their hearts you need to go as soon as possible, she's young and knows nothing about Islam if you wait too long she might find someone else...since you said you guys barely talk now
Brother - MARRY HER. This is a very good thing and you will be rewarded for marrying her so to stop having sex outside marriage. It gives respect to you and the girl and gives you both rights.

If you are a muslim man, you are allowed to marry a muslim, christian or jew. Your future children must be taught the muslim religion.

If she becomes mulsim then you have saved her and she may then save you. If she does not change then its still ok, as long as you help her and yourself to become a good person and your future children.

You now need to think how you are going to support her financially if you marry her - that's a different set of problems.

- IN the Koran it says that christian and jews are closest to us. They are our friends and we are theirs. But you must stay MUSLIM because it was the last true religion told to mankind through Prophet Muhammed (PBUH).

You have many many muslim friends in the mosque, community wherever who will support you one 100% - do not be afraid or shy to ask. We are good people.



'My name is shazee and i am not a terrorist'
You are in deep **** kid. Your religion is not a religion of peace, it is also intolerant to interfaith marriage. They will stone you to death or murder her if you dare to bring her to your family.