I'm engaged to be married. This one night, me and my future husband came from this wonderful restaurant, and had a wonderful time. It was perfect. When I got back to my house, I started thinking "What if I didn't like him" or "What if he didn't like me" and after thinking and thinking about it, it happened. If I didn't love him, I would end this. Friends have told me, my mind is saying no, but my heart is saying yes. How do I stop thinking about the negative things and focus on the positive things?How do you stop overthinking about a relationship?Maybe your just being pessimistic or getting cold feet, this happens to alot of women the more serious a relationship gets. Most likely this is happening because your scared or are guarding your yourself in some ways from getting hurt.
If your mind and your heart have always been in the same place, just blame that.
If you always been second guessing however, you may want sit down and have some time for yourself to sort out your negative feelings. With time, my hope is that your doubts will subside.
Right now your probably being bombarded with plans of the big day, plus your getting alot of input and encouragement from family and friends..In your mind, maybe everything seems to good to be true, but only you know whats right. Give yourself some space, we all need it from time to time.How do you stop overthinking about a relationship?you should just go with your heart. if you liked the guy enough to say yes to the propsal you most likely still love him. I think you may just be nervous. convince yourself that your just making a bug deal out of things. that always helps.
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