How can we enjoy our sex life without the kids interfering us?

We have two kids (4 and 7). The problem is that the kids like to hang with us so much that it is difficult to get some privacy for a good amount of time. The kids prefer to sleep with us in the night. Any idea how we can enjoy our sex life?How can we enjoy our sex life without the kids interfering us?Run away from homeHow can we enjoy our sex life without the kids interfering us?
It sounds like you and your children have a wonderful relationship, but you do have a right as parents to your "time alone." Tell your children, that mommy and daddy have "their" time to themselves. Since they are too young yet to explain why you need that time alone, just be general about this and leave it at that. Tell them, they are getting too old to sleep with you any longer and they need to sleep in their own bedroom(s). Then, get them their own beds and make them sleep in it. They may not like it at first and cry and tell you that they miss you, but in time, they will get over it and get used to it. You might want to think about how you can cheer up their bedrooms and make their bedrooms a "fun" place to be in. All children would prefer to sleep with their parents I think, but there comes a point in time when it is no longer appropriate for children to sleep with their parents - especially when they get to be 7 years old! You might want to put them in a room together since they are both still young so they won't be frightened and alone at night...but if they are of different sex, you will want to separate them into two distinct rooms for the obvious reason of body privacy, of course.



You can also think about other ways of doing this too. Hire a trusted babysitter and go out for the night to dinner - then rent a motel or hotel room where you can be alone for a while and do your thing.



Find activities for your children in the early evening hours to keep them busy, doing homework, watching tv, using the computer (make sure you have parental controls so they don't wander!).



In the mean time, have your "time alone" and tell them, they are NOT to disturb you and your spouse. Lock your bedroom door and cover any keyhole with a cloth or clothing so they cannot peer through the keyhole or spy on you.



This is how my parents handled it and it worked.How can we enjoy our sex life without the kids interfering us?You should make your kids sleep in their own beds. I have a 16 month old daughter that absolutely will not fall asleep in her crib, so what I do is simply let her fall asleep in bed with me, and either take her to her room, or have her daddy take her and put her in her crib every night. That way I only have that short 15 minutes with her in my bed to get her to sleep, and since she falls asleep in my arms, she doesn't realize she's been moved, and usually sleeps all night! Where as if I make her fall asleep in her bed, she'll climb out and come get in bed with me! Kids are crazy.
First, get your kids into activities outside the home, sports, martial arts, etc. This way they can make friends and not feel like they need to spend every waking hour with you.



Second, your kids shouldn't be sleeping in your bed past the age of 2. You need to break your kids of this habit. Have then start sleeping in their own bed, if they cry and moan, try reading them a bedtime story first before you put them to bed.



Third, you had the kids so, you have to take responsibility for them, meaning... less sex. If you wanted more sex or to enjoy your sex life, then you shouldn't have had kids.How can we enjoy our sex life without the kids interfering us?i'm sure the kids do prefer to sleep with you at night. but as the adults in the relationship it's up to you to say no, or at least after they fall asleep take them back to their beds.

there are plenty of women and plenty of men available to fill in for both of you in the sex department.

in other words, couples get sex at home or elsewhere. plus it's not a good idea in general to let the kids know they can have you 100 per cent of the time...it's just not like that in the real world.How can we enjoy our sex life without the kids interfering us?
Co-Sleeping... Invented by people who don't really want to have sex.

Sweetie: get those kids into their own room(s).

Our kids are 14 %26amp; 17 and still don't have permission to just barge into our bedroom.

Be the adults in your house.

Good luck!!!

xoxoxoxoxo
You have to have sex whenever they are asleep.

There is no other way.

Start making them to sleep separately by providing separate beds.

Avoid them sleeping with you. Till then you will not get privacy.How can we enjoy our sex life without the kids interfering us?
Get them out of your bed hun. They are too old now to sleep in your bed and it will teach them a form of independence. Once you get them out of your bed then you will be able to have plenty of room and time for love making. Good Luck
get them to sleep in their own rooms...I mean getting them to sleep in their rooms doesn't mean that you love them less but its something that they have to do. then you might be able to get some sex time!!!
First of all break the habit of the kids sleeping with you! This is unacceptable for many reasons.



After you've solved this issue--then you can begin to enjoy your sex life....
its really difficult to keep away from children's eye.
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Put them in their own beds and get a lock for your bedroom door.
Yes, make them sleep in their beds. You have your own bed for a reason.