How can I get my girlfriend to want to have sex again?

Ok, I've posted several times asking ways to kill my sex drive because my girlfriend doesn't want to have sex anymore. I'm not a sex fiend, just wanting sex 3-4 times a week but my girlfriend doesn't want to have sex anymore. We have been together two years, in our late twenties. Aside from our sexual differences we are very happy.



She doesn't want to have sex at all. How do I make her want more sex or how do I kill my sex drive?How can I get my girlfriend to want to have sex again?Well you can't put her under pressure to have sex. It might be that she's tired or preoccupied with other things and doesn't have the energy to have sex. Try talking to her and expressing your desires, find out why she has lost interest in sex and then you can tackle the reason.



You've been together two years already, and after a few years you can easily get into a no-sex rut. It's normal but frustrating. Doing new things together, taking her out more and showing her more affection will make her more sexually attracted to you, because affection begins outside of the bedroom. Also, remember she's not a sex machine, you can't just turn her on automatically, give her a massage by candlelight perhaps? That might get her in the mood.



Try new things, make her feel loved and sort out any problems outside the bedroom and I hope it works out for you.