Tuesday, February 21, 2012

What can I do to make sex less physically uncomfortable?

I've only been having sex for about a month now, but for some reason I have initial discomfort and pain every time. It goes away eventually, but it's still kind of uncomfortable, and it's never actually felt all that pleasurable yet. What could be some reasons/solutions for this? Is he too big? Is it a psychological thing?



Also, in certain positions I feel like I might accidentally pee everywhere, even if there's nothing in my bladder. What's that about?What can I do to make sex less physically uncomfortable?There could be a ton of reasons, but for the most part, sex can be uncomfortable for many women for a while when they first start.



Are you well lubricated? Your vagina excretes a natural lubricant that aids in the penetration of the penis. This happens when you are sexually aroused and stimulated by foreplay. More lube is usually common remedy. You can always buy a lubricant as well, preferably water-based as they are the most safe, especially if your partner uses condoms.



Try different positions. Experiment to see what makes both of you feel good. It can take some time, but it's okay. Some positions for me are definitely more uncomfortable than others, and can cause that "I-need-to-pee" sensation.



It may be psychological, too. Are you comfortable with your partner? Are you thinking about something else? Distracted?



If all else fails, you can check with your doctor to make sure everything is fine. Keep in mind that minor issues like yours are very common, so regardless, I'm pretty sure you'll figure something out. :)



Best of luck!

What are the psychological consequences of kids being raised by same sex couples?

With two states already approving same sex marriage, what are going to be the consequences of same sex couples raising children? Will this off throw and degrade society, since social norms start from the family? What are the psychological consequences of kids being raised by same sex couples?What are the psychological consequences of kids being raised by same sex couples?The kid, (especially when he/she gets older) will be COMPLETLY embaraassed to state that they are the parents. It also encourages the kid that this is okay! (which it is TOTALLY NOT, God created man to like women not women to like women or men to like men)



Yes. In my opinion, the new president should TOTALLY put a stop to this.What are the psychological consequences of kids being raised by same sex couples?
none because as long as they are being cared for nothing else should matter.What are the psychological consequences of kids being raised by same sex couples?This sort of hypothetical question doesn't arise at all. How can they have a child and who will allow them to adopt one?
I would think the data is incomplete. While I think the concept of homosexual marriage is flawed; I recognize that many intelligent people see it the other way. The accurate answer to your question is several years down the road. If a "Ted Bundy" is the product of a same sex marriage that does not mean the psychological consequences are negative. If a "Mother Theresa" is the product of a same sex family, that does not mean the atmosphere is healthy and wholesome. People are great for picking and choosing their facts to reach the conclusion they want. I oppose same sex marriage because I see the costs of health care insurance being artificially raised by this unforeseen event of a large number of adults being dropped into the same insurance pool as a family that has been covered under the group policy for years.What are the psychological consequences of kids being raised by same sex couples?They could end up being very confused about life. They could even become gay/lesbian. Possibly when they are in school they could also be teased about it.



Personally I see no problem in same sex couples nor do I have anything against them. But all I hope for is that they dont have kids because their lives will not be easy.What are the psychological consequences of kids being raised by same sex couples?
There are bad consequences that is true, but look at it this way: in a family with two dads or two moms he will be better than in an orphanage
None..People who think this are either brainwashed or just aren't very good a thinking. Is it harmful to send your child to school if all they only have 1 out of every teacher is a man? What if someone grows up with all brothers or sisters? These things don't matter. I had a male teacher in 3rd grade who everyone was afraid of %26amp; he ended up being very nice to me. I was so good so he went out of his way. But I was terrified of him %26amp; I don't think he being male was that good. My favorite teachers was also male. I think these thoughts are just like being racist, etc. They are from not judging people as individuals. This is a lesson we have in life that goes as deep as us judging the Bible to be the word of God instead of knowing that God speaks through everything. God is essence not physical matter so Spirit doesn't need to be a certain outer shell or a certain body. These things are not the true %26amp; we shouldn't judge by appearences.What are the psychological consequences of kids being raised by same sex couples?
The kids will learn how diverse humanity is- that our societies are comprised of many, many different types of people with different ethnic backgrounds, different religions, different sexual orientations, and different types of families and relationships- rather than having no idea that same-sex couples exist.



Being aware of this early on is a benefit to the kids and to the rest of us, since violence against other members of society (whether racial, religious or otherwise) stems from simple fear and ignorance- and in America we don't discriminate against people due to their sexual orientation, either.



The overwhelming majority of gay adults were raised by heterosexual parents, just like the rest of us. So clearly having parents with a different sexual orientation isn't an issue. Just because dad enjoys 1950's big band music and loves the taste of horseradish doesn't mean I do- my tastes and preferences are my own.
I dont think it will degrade society. Social norms are set by "society" and once ppl wake up and stop being so judgemental maybe children who are raised by same sex couples will stand a chance at a normal upbringing.

What are the consequences to children being raised by heterosexual couples who drink, cheat, beat, abuse or neglect their children?

I think if a same sex couple decides to raise a child together, they have already faced the unimaginable from society to begin with. If they can do that, to me it speaks volume as to their determination and motives. Everyone deserves to be happy and if society has a problem with it, well, Tough!
We already know the consequences, as there are adults who have been raised in same-sex couple homes.



And those devestating consequences are ... wait for it ... NONE!



The consequences of being raised by these or by this parent depend on the parent, and how good a parent they are.



The idea that forbidding some people to form families is NOT a "pro-family" stance, but an anti-family stance.



Yes, norms start from the family unit. when there's a strong bond of love between the parents, and between those parents and their children, you tend to get strong, healthy people resulting fromt he child-rearing process.



How does committed love degrade society?



In the footage of recent marriages (I live in California, near SF, so local news has really spent significant time on this), there was a clip of a couple that had been together many years, and had 3 kids. One of the newly-wed parents said "Every kids prefers their parents be married to each other. Now OUR kids have that."



And this is a BAD thing WHY?



If your marriage is destroyed by the fact that other people can get married, your marriage was worthless to begin with.
You should see my question posted a couple of days ago. Read the story that I choose as the best answer. It will open eyes!
mostly being picked on and also what are they going to say when it's parent's day? hi im ronnie i work at 1-800-samesexcouple

How can I become an online sex toy distributor?

Does anyone have any suggestions for how to become an online sex toy distributor? I want sell them online and also host sensual parties. Genuine answers only please.How can I become an online sex toy distributor?To be honest, it sounds like you want to become a store owner rather than a 'distributor' ( the companys that actually supply the stores) THAT is a whole different thing and a major effort.



I own a online shop, and I can help you in that arena:



Start off by doing some research for companys that offer turn-key adult stores. These companies will host, and maintain you site, as well, in some cases, serve as a distributor by providing a inventory of products you can use on your site and offer drop shipping services.



Some people will try and tell you that you're locked into using THAT one company as a distrubutor, but I actually use three different distrubutors, *none* of them are my Turn-key company - I use them *only* for hosting my site because I wasn't a fan of their perfomance as a distributor. *You* will always be in control of what your website carries and the prices you charge.



You'll pay a set up fee, and mine even applied a template so I was technically ready to go - and if that company provides a large inventory- you can select the products you wish to carry, make adjustments to the template to customize it and go live. You still need to do the background stuff - set up a domain name and a business/tax licence - whatever your local laws require as well as a Credit card processor, and a business bank account. I'm not saying its a snap, but its isn't a Herculean effort either.



About dropshipping - This is a wonderfull alternative to actually having to warehouse a lot of stock yourself: Someone orders a "Rabbit" vibe, you put in the order to your distributor, for a small fee, they send it out to your customer for you. Its worked quite well for me.



The real difference between stores is the marketing- market your business, pass out cards, throw events, demos, whatever - your customer base will be all local at first but eventually but at time goes, you'll get a more diverse base. I live in Maryland and I recently vacationed in Vegas. In checking out the "other side" of Vegas I went into a shop and ran inot one of MY business cards. Marketing works. Also - research all you can about your stock - the more you know and can talk about, the more people trust you as a business. I've sold products while having a freindly conversation about toys - without really meaning too!



The biggest snag I had was getting a Credit Card processor. With CC processors getting tough on Adult content, some (many)companies have been downright Nazi-ish, even dictating what a cleint can sell or not sell.. even giving me grief about the packaging of the products, which I had nothing to do with, and demanding that I "fuzz out" any nudity on the product images - and I carry over 1000 different products! I use Linkpoint - I recommend them *highly* - they don't give you crap or take you through the ringer like many other processors do. They handle transaction on my site AND and point of sale transactions we do at a toy party or event. I was on vacation and I did business with just my laptop! You could use PayPal... but they have an inconsistant stance on Adult businesses. One auditor looked at our site and cancalled our account, another looked at it with no changes and reinstated us... and that LAST thing you want is they way you get paid being left up to the personal opinions of a stary auditor on any given day. You'll pay less per transaction as well. This is vital, because chosing a company that might revoke your account can leave you dead in the water and out of business.



Good Luck - and I hope this helps you.How can I become an online sex toy distributor?
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How can I become an online sex toy distributor?
To be honest I know of a couple of women who have recently gone into this and failed. The reason being is that big online stores like Ann Summers and Fig Leaves etc have got the market now. Home parties were all the rage in the 80's but with online buying to quick and easy now - most people go for that. xxxx
Establish your sales website and you are on your way. In order to get good hits you must advertise in the mass media too.How can I become an online sex toy distributor?
Have you gone down the line of Ann Summers? Or contact other establishments like that

How can I tell age and sex of my cornsnake?

I think he or she is about 5 months but not sure. About 14 inches long head to tail. How do I know age and sex of this cornsnake.How can I tell age and sex of my cornsnake?The vet can sex the snake, it is dangerous (you have to squeeze out its "stuff") because snakes hide their "stuff" within them..



There are videos on youtube on how to do this, but I would not suggest it. Some vets will not even do it because of the harm you can possibly cause. . .



**Warning some viewers may find this SLIGHTLY graphic

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=76Q3xKf7l鈥?/a>How can I tell age and sex of my cornsnake?you can't really tell age just from looking at a snake. But you should take it to a vet to have it sexed or a corn snake breeder.
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  • Is it possible to feel emotionally secure in a relationship without sex? Is it healthy?

    I know that it's possible to feel emotionally secure in a relationship whenever sex has never been introduced into the relationship. But what if sex had already been introduced? And for some reason one partner decides not to have sex (outside of religious beliefs). What if they live together, sleep in the same bed? Is it healthy?Is it possible to feel emotionally secure in a relationship without sex? Is it healthy?I am dealing with the same problem. Me and my boyfriend used have sex and do sexual things all the time. Now we dont. He wants to, I dont. We sleep in the same bed, live together..... Its causing a lot of problems. He feels un loved. He feels like something has changed, and I am not attracted to him anymore. It is NOT healthy... for me anyhow.Is it possible to feel emotionally secure in a relationship without sex? Is it healthy?
    Well unfortunately if you two have had sex and all of the sudden he makes the step of not having it anymore, then that will make you feel unstable emotionally. Us girls are very in tune with our emotions, and we were just created that way! You have made this deep and intimate connection with someone and then they stop, that will make you feel unstable. I don't have all the facts here, but you should communicate how you feel.

    And if you can feel secure without sex, then thats great!Is it possible to feel emotionally secure in a relationship without sex? Is it healthy?Ummm, from personal expirience, yes it can be. But if one of you wants it that throws a spanner i there and might be best to split if that was the case. But yeah, it's possible.. but might mean he's just not the right person for you. It's easy to be comfortable in a stagnant relationship.. but is it fun or worthwhile.. or is it just a habit you've developed?
    i think it depends on the couple.... i would guess that it wouldn't work for more couples than it would - i don't even know the reason i am commenting on though, is it because of a physical problem? an infection perhaps? if so, then these things are dealt with differently by each individual and couple. that's my opinion anyway, i just don't think the answer is a s black and white as it seems....Is it possible to feel emotionally secure in a relationship without sex? Is it healthy?Why would it be 'un-healthy'? .....as long as the two are communicating honestly with each other.



    Why would it be 'unhealthy' and by implication, 'bad'?



    If that form or relationship suits them, then so be it and it is not for others to make judgements upon it or them.



    Sash.Is it possible to feel emotionally secure in a relationship without sex? Is it healthy?
    Sleep in the same bed w/o sex!

    Healthy? Sure "yes" (In both ways - Physically %26amp; Mentally)

    But, already introduced.

    Then, how long will it work out? Not even in hours.



    The right reply " Sorry"
    yeah. sex would help thoIs it possible to feel emotionally secure in a relationship without sex? Is it healthy?
    gees!

    use those organs

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    What happens when 2 relatives have sex and gives birth to a baby?

    For example, a male cousin have sex with his female cousin, will the baby be mentally retarded or abnormal in some way or another? Please explain.What happens when 2 relatives have sex and gives birth to a baby?I think many places have laws regarding incest and who can marry who, and this is the reason. Where I live, it is unlawful for two people who are more closely related than second cousins to marry, but they will make an exception for first cousins if the woman is past child-bearing age. (Yuck.)

    Some people call it "inbreeding" and yes, there is a greater incidence of birth defects, and often the child has a strange look about them. Often the child has mental handicaps or lower intelligence. There are also cases where the child is totally normal. With all the risks, it's better to control yourself and avoid these problems.What happens when 2 relatives have sex and gives birth to a baby?
    The odds of cousins having children with birth defects is only 3 to 4 percent higher than everybody else. The idea that it causes birth defects all the time has been shown up as a myth.

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    What happens when 2 relatives have sex and gives birth to a baby?it comes out looking like something from the hill have eyes.

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    What happens when 2 relatives have sex and gives birth to a baby?
    For relatives of the same blood to have sex and have a baby, there are always risks involved. I cannot guarantee there will be something wrong with the baby but i cant say there wont be something wrong. This is what scans, and blood tests at the midwife is for, to detect downs syndrome, spina bifida etc.What happens when 2 relatives have sex and gives birth to a baby?Depends on what level of cousins they are also (1st, 2nd, etc...) and the first answer was also correct.What happens when 2 relatives have sex and gives birth to a baby?
    It's called incest, and sometimes they are born with some sort of defect. Other times, they are not.
    the pool of gene is limited then thus defects are likely seen

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    the last one becomes more probable

    plus no chance of growth